I was at lunch one day with a girlfriend at a restaurant and overheard some ladies at an adjoining table. What I heard was astonishing! Giggling and laughing, one said basically “the kids always come first." And then laugh about where their spouses fall on the list. "If you asked me what the breakdown was, I would say my children, then my girlfriends, and finally my husband. But…don’t tell him that because he doesn’t know it.” And then they laugh hysterically like it’s all a big joke.
I bet her husband‘s breakdown is probably similar, “My children, my girlfriends and then my wife….but don’t tell her because she doesn’t know it because she’s too busy focusing on her kids, her friends and herself”.
Marriage isn’t a joke. If you put your spouse last; it’s a tragic and sad affair.
My husband Jim and I have been married for over 16 years. Like you, our lives are impossibly busy. Like you, we love our kids (our four dogs). Our marriage provides the foundation for everything that we’ve built together. It isn’t a joke. It’s something we work hard at and are tremendously proud of achieving. I want it to last a lifetime, which is why I treat it accordingly. If you stop and think about it, it’s the way it should be.
You should put your marriage first and here is why:
What is the Perfect Dating Website?
When I’m interviewing a prospective client who is finally ready to get back into the dating game after suffering through one failed relationship after another, what do they ask me?
“What is the perfect dating website for me?”
Now I’m not against finding your Mr. Right (or Mrs. Right) through an on-line dating site, I actually found my honey through Match.com. But what gets my blood to boil is that my potential client is repeating the same behavior that she’s repeated over and over these last three relationships that have all ended in dismal failure. Didn’t you get that memo, “you keep doing what you do, you’ll continue to get what you got!”. You need to change you’re approach before you step into another pile of bad relationship do-do!
I’ve found that most people will spend much more time planing a vacation then plan on choosing the right person that they’ll spend their life with! Think about that statement. That’s very sobering that we put more emphasis on planning one or two weeks away from home then planning on who will be our bed partner, life partner, possible co-parent and soulmate for your whole lifetime!
Here are the simple steps to prepare you for your next and hopefully last love at last:
I work with a customized 5 step process that easily helps you manifest the person of your desire
I hold your hand through the process if you need it or just offer my unbiased opinion when the selection gets tough.
Bottom line everyone needs a coach in their corner looking out for your best interest and when it comes to the matters of the heart, I can help you sift through the muck that we call modern dating.
I believe so much in my 5 step process that I used it myself to find the love of my life!
For your FREE love consultation, call me now at 424-281-0170
Don’t let another holiday or family gathering pass without that special someone on your arms!